February 2nd, 2011

Spuffy - Burning Hands (animated)

A Story Of True Love

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.   He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.   I took his vital signs and had him take a seat,knowing it would be over an hourbefore someone would to able to see him.   I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.   On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that heneeded to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.   He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knewwho he was, that she had notrecognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,  'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,  'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'


True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is,has been, will be, and will not be.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything;they just make the best of everything they have.

Life isn't about how to survive the storm,  But how to dance in the rain. We are all getting older ... Tomorrow may be our turn.


With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails,sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message..This one I thought I could share with you.   

I've said, as you know, that I sometimes feel I have "him" missing ... but you know those final thoughts are for me .... I have a great life,a nd wonderful friends ... I must make the most of what I have and enjoy it.

I hope you share this with someone you care about. I just did.

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Adventure before dementia

Half & Half

Yes, I'm quirky ... even i know that, but as for being outgoing and loving to meet new people ... no, I'm afraid that is not me. 

I have a fear of walking into a room ... one of my real problesm ... most people who have met me in RL may have guessed that, as I tend to keep to myself ... it's a weird thing, I know, but I have figured that if I don't get close to people I can't get hurt.  Teenage bullying has a lot to answer for, because even though I know I do it, I can't escape that terror.

Your Little Black Dress Says You're Quirky

You are lively and outgoing. You are naturally friendly.

You enjoy meeting new people and making new connections.

Your style is whimsical and unique. You're good at putting together interesting outfits.

If you were a shoe, you would be: High heeled boots

OK - James

2011 - Day 33

I had to go out this morning to collect a letter from the post office, as I had to sign for it ... I took the scenic route, rather than through the roadworks.

2011 - 33
Bude's Church was built in the 1860's ... so is not a traditional Anglican one.  You can see the river in the foreground, and the canal, as they head (right) towards the sea.