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December Meme ... Day 16 
16th-Dec-2016 08:08 pm
Dad
Day 16 → something that made you sad this year

There's an obvious answer here ... becoming an orphan in September. Dad (and Mum) were friends, as well as parents. Although I know they are in Heaven and I will see them again, it's sad not to be able to chat to them, see them, give them a hug (and get a hug back).

The other thing that made me sad is that I still find it impossible to cry for them. I often have found that I find it impossible to cry for my major losses ... but that makes me sad.
Comments 
17th-Dec-2016 04:04 am (UTC)
You had huge losses this year. Wish I could be there to give you a hug myself.
20th-Dec-2016 08:14 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much, the love and support of my friends here mean so, so much.

*hugs*
17th-Dec-2016 09:26 am (UTC)
*offers hugs*
20th-Dec-2016 08:14 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much, the love and support of my friends here mean so, so much.

*hugs*
17th-Dec-2016 10:29 am (UTC)
(Hugs))

Some griefs run too deep for tears xx
20th-Dec-2016 08:18 pm (UTC)
Thank you, although it just seems so wrong, even though I know there is no "correct" way to grieve.

This feeling of limbo just seems so odd

*hugs*
17th-Dec-2016 03:18 pm (UTC)
God bless you, Deb.

(hugs)
20th-Dec-2016 08:15 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much, the love and support of my friends here mean so, so much.

*hugs*
18th-Dec-2016 01:42 am (UTC)
Not a good year, this :-(

Wishing you lots of strength to cope with your loss.
20th-Dec-2016 08:16 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much, the love and support of my friends here mean so, so much.

*hugs*
19th-Dec-2016 11:07 pm (UTC)
*hugs*
20th-Dec-2016 08:16 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much, the love and support of my friends here mean so, so much.

*hugs*
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24th-Dec-2016 09:05 pm (UTC)
Thank you *hugs*

It just seems wrong not to be able to cry.
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13th-Jan-2017 05:21 pm (UTC)
Reading your reply made me re-think my life-thoughts, and it has occured to me that we grew up with the phrase "Don't make a fuss". Mum was someone who never screamed, yelled, cried at all .... and that expression of emotion was frowned on.

Maybe that's something that we all struggle with
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